Rites of Passage
First appeared in Poet Lore Winter/Spring, 2023
The Giardino degli Aranci 
          is full of lounging Romans
          congregating at dusk 
          to watch the sun set 
          on St Peter’s. 
I hear more than one tour guide 
          tell his group to keep this place 
          a secret, so it’s not overrun, 
and locals can enjoy 
          the two-thousand-year-old 
          tradition of pleasure gardens.
The elementary school playground–
          a hundred feet away, passed 
          the fifth-century church–
          has the same view.
I imagine these children 
          will sip wine mixed with lemonade 
          at a family lunch at least once 
          when very young, like I did.
I recall just one time, 
          the metallic taste another mystery 
          of adults. But I knew, even then, 
          it belonged to the full 
          ceremony of breaking bread, 
and now I did, too: 
          deeper-rooted, secured to them 
          by initiation.
I wonder about the parents
          at these school gates–taking in 
          this astonishing view–
          and what they make of the lives 
          of American kids 
          the ages of theirs.
If they know about the drills.
          If they can translate
          shelter in place.        

 
    
                